Wedding Tips: Pin a Boutonniere
How to Correctly Pin a Boutonniere on a Suit for a Wedding | Dreams Photography
How to Correctly Pin a Boutonniere on a Man’s Suit for a Wedding
A beautifully pinned boutonniere adds a refined finishing touch to any groom or groomsman’s suit. As a Sydney wedding photographer, I’ve helped countless couples prepare before the ceremony. Surprisingly, pinning a boutonniere correctly is something many people struggle with—so here is a simple, reliable guide to get it right every time.
What You’ll Need
- The boutonniere
- One or two straight pins
- A suit jacket or tuxedo
- A second person (helpful but optional)
Where to Place the Boutonniere
The boutonniere sits on the left lapel, above the heart. Most jackets have a buttonhole at the top of the lapel—sometimes functional, sometimes decorative. Even if sewn shut, it marks the correct placement.
Step-by-Step: How to Pin a Boutonniere Correctly
Step 1: Hold the Boutonniere in Place
Position the boutonniere at the top of the left lapel. Hold it so the flower faces outward and sits just below the tie knot.
Step 2: Insert the Pin from Behind the Lapel
Insert the pin from behind the lapel so it remains hidden. Push it toward the stem with a gentle upward angle.
Step 3: Pierce the Stem Once
Guide the pin through the thickest part of the stem. Avoid piercing petals—this damages the flower.
Step 4: Secure the Pin Back Into the Lapel
Angle the pin downward and push it back into the underside of the lapel. This creates a loop that firmly holds the flower.
Step 5: Final Adjustments
Adjust the flower so it sits upright, flat, and symmetrical. You may use a second pin if extra stability is needed. alt Final adjustments
Helpful Tips for a Perfect Boutonniere
- Choose a sturdy flower like roses, orchids, or succulents.
- Keep boutonnieres refrigerated until they’re needed.
- Use floral tape or wiring provided by your florist for extra durability.
- Ask your photographer for help—many of us are used to styling wedding attire.
For more wedding preparation advice, visit the Dreams Photography blog.
Mistakes to Avoid
- Pinning too low on the lapel
- Letting the stem show
- Relying only on the lapel’s buttonhole
- Piercing or crushing delicate petals
Make Sure It’s Photo-Ready
Before the ceremony, do a final check. Ensure the boutonniere is straight, secure, and fresh. A well-pinned boutonniere enhances your suit and looks stunning in photos—helping you look your best on your wedding day.
For more styling guidance and wedding photography tips, explore Dreams Photography, your trusted Sydney wedding photography team.
